It’s not about the kissing, holding hands, the dates, the sex, and showing off. It’s about being with someone who makes you happy in a way that no one else can. It’s about being with someone who accepts you and your weirdness. It’s about being yourself around them and they can be their self around you.
i can just imagine harry and louis sitting with their food talking amongst others and someone says “so when is your wedding louis?” and louis says “idk - when is it” and looks at harry with a smirk and harry smiles and says “i’m just waiting for my ring louis then i’ll pick a date”.